Sunday, 30 October 2011

Another dillema on Love

What if your best friend wanted to be your boyfriend?

How would you react to that situation if you were the one involved? Last night that question crossed my mind.. Not that it is happening to me. But I found that topic kind of interesting because we girls wanted our "boyfriends" to be our best friends. Do you agree? But what if they first became your best friend then they wanted to become your boyfriend?.. The dillema comes in here. You don't want to lose your best friend because you value your friendship so much that they can't be your partner. Hmmm. It kinda doesn't make sense. I hope you know where this is going. You know the feeling that your better off as friends rather than being in a relationship. Or you don't want each other to get hurt (?) LOL.

We tell our best friends everything. There are some things we keep from our partner. May be that's the difference. I believe that best friends turn into lovers would not work for me. Sorry but this is my own opinion. Because my best friend would be the person I will share my problems with regarding my relationship, so then I can talk to my partner about it. But if my best friend is also my lover, I think it would be hard or this is just me not knowing what to do. This is me trying to understand something I haven't even dealt with before...

Till next time. I will finish this blog post in case I encounter this situation

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