Love? xxx

When a guy starts to pursue you, you surely should give him a hard time. Wanna know why? Because when a guy starts the courting stage with you, it's the time wherein he'll show all his good sides. It's the time that he'll put up with you through anything. He'll be by your side every time. He'll even send you load just so you can text him. HAHAHA. You see girls? There doing this to get you. When he's courting you for months already, and he's really consistent then that guy does deserve the chance. Please don't fall easily for a man's sweet words, OBSERVE HIM! Find out until when he can pursue you. If he stops then he stops courting you, it's not your loss anymore. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Even if he's the greatest looking guy in the world with the perfect everything.  ;'>

After the courting stage, this is where bad things start to happen. You'll notice him being different than he was before (when he was still pursuing you), he doesn't text that much like it was before, he'll be too uptight with a lot of stuff. Hmm like the way you dress, the people you talk to (especially boys) You know things like that.. 

And you being the girl who completely fell in love with him because of what he shown when he was still courting, you would just take in to consider everything. You would even make excuses for yourself just to make you believe that it's still the same and that nothing has changed. This is also where girls act really stupid because they're so in love and they don't want to let their guy go. It's like the boy is so into you when he's still courting you, but once when you're together and the girl is so in love with him, boys doesn't seem to care anymore. All the effort just to get you!!!

I don't know why we're like this. It makes me wonder. I've been through all these things. When it comes to love, you never know what will happen, what could happen, and what will happen to you when you lose it. For first timers, it is never easy. This is the time wherein you make bad decisions, act stupid, be so immature and selfish. Don't you worry! It's normal because it's your first time. You're just beginning to discover what's right or wrong when it comes to love. Let me share to you the feeling of being in love for the very first time! You'll know when you're in love when you can't get that smile off your face, when you start to think if him every time even in your dreams. There will also come a time that you would reflect on the situation. It's not about the "kilig" feeling anymore. It's about the fear. The feeling before you enter a relationship, you start to feel scared thinking it won't last forever. What if I get hurt? Trust me peepz! When you're in love, take a leap of faith and go with it. :) Because in every heartache you experience, there comes an unforgettable lesson that would make your next relationship much stronger. 

Remember:

-don't be in a relationship just because of peer pressure

-never love just because you're lonely

-never court, when you're not ready

-give and take

-always understand each other

-if you love another, let go of the other one. you can't love two people at the same time

-take your relationship seriously

-always trust the person you love

-never hide what you feel, it will consume you and it will result into a bigger problem